Did you know that when you have sex with someone you are creating a bond with that person?

It’s true!!

Science shows that when we have sex we release chemicals and hormones that “super glue” us together for the rest of our lives.
Sex is not just physical, the bond is physical as well as emotional, spiritual and mental – all at the same time!

You see its all about your bodies largest sex organ, guys and girls have this organ in common, its your brain! The chemicals and hormones your brain produces and releases during sexual arousal and release create this “super glue” that bind us with the other person.

You need to know that the more partners you have, the weaker your ability to bond becomes. Think about it… does a prostitute bond with her clients every night?

There is good news, is you fear that you may have lost your bonding power, you can get it back! For more information contact us at Alternatives for more information on sexual bonding!!!

 

People add sex to a meaningful relationship for lots of reasons. A common one is to “take it to the next level”… to get closer. Let’s take a close look at how sex impacts the true intimacy in a relationship.

Psychologists say there are five levels of intimacy:

Of the five levels we progress through in developing emotional intimacy, where would you want to be with someone if you were to marry them?

What level do you think most people are at when they add sex to the relationship?

What you need to know is instead of sex taking us to a deeper level of intimacy, it acts as an intimacy blocker. Because of the bond we talked about, you may feel very close to the one you’re with, however this same bond that makes you feel close keeps you from risking the painful breaking up of the relationship, therefore keeping you at the same level of intimacy you were at when you started having sex. Sex creates an artificial sense of intimacy in a relationship to where you feel you are much closer then you are. Think about the couples you know who get married, live under the same roof for years and wake up one morning and realize “I don’t even know you”. Counterfeit intimacy. My question to you is how well do you really know the person your sleeping with?